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I am here for friendship, community, and women. I don't need anymore male "doms" in my inbox. I am mean, and I will not apologize for being that way. No I don't want to fuck you guys, and I will not entertain you. if you have not read this, nor do you understand it, don't message me. also, I don't put feet anywhere near my mouth.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Heyy!!!✨🌱 pan/demi I wanna make genuine connections and have new friends or more :) or sugar me ;3 Down for anything really, lemme come over rn. I don’t have to answer you please know that
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington
No, I don’t have Sn*pch*t. 😜 Brat. Slut. Mom of two. Hotwife. Businesswoman. Nymphomaniac. What are my interests? Spending time with my ***/friends/family, traveling, hiking, exploring nature, scenic drives, eating good food, drinking good drinks, binging shows, watching movies, curling up by fires, being in cabins, music, being bratty, being slutty, playing games, admiring beauty, going to plays or drive-ins, cosplay, dressing up, sex, sex and more sex. Why am I here? To meet likeminded people and have fun. WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites - You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. You do not have my permission to copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information without prior written consent. If you have or do, it will be considered a *** of my privacy and will be subject to all legal remedies. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Polyamorous muppet/human hybrid, dating solo. I’m here looking for a local person for a long-term, meaningful anchor partner connection with a deep power exchange component. Over two decades in BDSM taught me I’m a devoted, unapologetically submissive partner who thrives with experienced, confident Dominants. I need someone who can handle both a flogger and a dinner reservation with equal ease. If you can invest time and attention beyond once a week, we will build an extraordinary D/s team. It is within the safety of that deep bond I would like to explore CNC, free use, primal play, power exchange, and ***d gangbangs. . I am well-traveled and endlessly curious, which I hope we share. I get few chances to be as outdoorsy as I’d like, but I never miss a great concert, gallery opening, or perfectly planned adventure. I’m usually reading at least three books at once while drinking bourbon in my mermaid underpants. Share your latest reads, teach me a new skill you love while something jazzy plays through a steel needle, or come over for cocktails while I make us something delicious. . Vaccinated, boosted, and regularly tested. Neurospicy (Tested IQ of 170+, AuDHD polymath + synesthesia and orgasmic superpowers), 420 friendly, no *** of my own (but I don't mind if you have them and will spoil them if you let me). . Passions: sci-fi and fantasy, vampire films, history, art, theoretical physics, *** rescue, music theory, smooth bourbons, kink, shibari, social justice and equity, museums, and science. . Not compatible with: TERFs, racists, bigots, misogynists, zionists, Christians, or Trump voters. . I am not good at long-distance relationships and do not wish to speak to anyone that does not live in my local area.
Female (46) Tacoma, Washington
PNW Pro/ Lifestyle Dom / SW looking to take on up to 5 + new Loyal, Obedient, Generous Subs/ Sissy's/ Cucks/ Beta Simps to serve her. Interested in serving? Send me a DM so we can talk about logistics. That being said - open to other arrangements 😘😈πŸ”₯ Open to any and ALL different dynamics of arrangements stemming from a Dom/ Sub relationship to sugaring and spoiling, to a more transactional SW dynamic, or if I'm arm candy or just spending time with someone you enjoy the company of. Ultimately I want someone who's going to make me a priority while I'm with them. Knowing that my time is valuable and should be treated as such. I want this to be a mutually beneficial and fulfilling dynamic that is seen as valuable and enjoyable!πŸ˜πŸ˜‰πŸ’‹ I really just want to hang out with someone who's going to make me laugh as hard as they make me cum!πŸ˜‚πŸ€­πŸ‘…πŸ†πŸ‘πŸ’¦πŸŽ€πŸ˜‰βœ¨
Female (26) Tacoma, Washington
Not looking for a relationship β€” just looking for the right dynamic. πŸ’‹ I’m playful, curious, and naturally submissive with the right person. I like confidence, good communication, and someone who knows how to take the lead without being disrespectful. I’m here to explore, have fun, and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re confident, patient, and know the difference between being dominant and being an asshole… we might get along very well. πŸ˜‰
Female (22) Tacoma, Washington
chill, funny, sweet and submissive and down to try pretty much anything at least once or twice (within limits) but im busy working a lot of the time though. im a nice person till your actions make not, so please keep the drama awayyyy. not down for any drama or trouble so please dont ruin the peaceful life that ive built for myself. And I do match energy, so whatever energy you give me is gonna be given back so if you dont like my attitude then look in the mirror at your own words and actions amd reflect on them! dont hit me up if you dont know how to hold a decent conversation without without making everything sexual every 5 minutes or if your looking for just nudes or video! because i dont send them (for anybody so do NOT ask!) looking mainly for something longer term whether it be a relationship/dynamic or just fwb, but if its fwb i still want to be friends, not just the benefits part i love late night adventures (ie picnics, drives, walks, smoke sessions), also love weed, music, hiking, camping, also love most ***s but my favorites are dogs, cats, horses and monkeys
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington
47 hippy raver chick that tends to be slightly on the submissive side in the bedroom. YES 420! Alcohol free and prefer meetups to also be. Only seeking Tacoma matches currently.
Female (47) Tacoma, Washington
21, bartender, looking for something new. if u immediately start using titles/sexting i am not going to respond. kinks i know im for sure into: ddlg petplay medium intensity impact play degrading/*** i am open to experimenting with most things. consent is key, i am very knowledgeable abt bdsm dynamics but am always open to learning more.
Female (21) Tacoma, Washington
Looking to connect with dominant men who appreciate thick & curvy women. Open minded, non-judgemental, willing to explore new things in person or from afar.
Female (39) Tacoma, Washington
I’m a fun 420 friendly girl need help exploring my kinks size queen men only idc if your into girls im not so please stop asking to hook up
Female (23) Tacoma, Washington
😊 Enjoying my life and marriage and looking to add to it ❀️I'm a 5'2 curvy bbw bimbo Dom leaning switch looking for her newest plaything to make into her mindless toy or some nice friends 😘This is a real life opportunity not a cyber. I frequent the Los Angeles California area as well as Tacoma Wa I seek a submissive that can be worked into being my slave. Serious inquiries only send ur top 5 kinks and ur hard limits no tobacco smokers weed is great 😊
Female (32) Tacoma, Washington
Love to fuck, what can I say? Not really a little but very submissive and cute when I have the right dom. Not gonna teach you, come prepared for a brat. I do not blindly follow orders. I don’t brat to disobey. It’s how I express my boundaries and keeps things fun. It comes naturally. I am only me, there is no roleplay here. I want passionate kisses and to be roughly devoured before the slow descent into quiet submission, where I go limp and enter subspace. If you don’t know what that is, move along. I am very prone to sub drop so aftercare (not just cuddles and kisses) is mandatory. Praise is my main kink.
Female (43) Tacoma, Washington
Married BBW looking for friends and possibly a fwb situation. Also looking for a third for my husband and I **fat bearded local men to the front of the line! please be under the age of 45
Female (34) Tacoma, Washington
While I’ve never had a physical D/s relationship, I’ve experienced an intense connection with a Dom in the past that awakened desires and curiosities I haven’t yet had the opportunity to fully explore. That experience left me wanting to learn more about myself, my boundaries, and the kinks that may be waiting beneath the surface. I’m hoping to meet a Dom who is experienced, confident, and emotionally intelligentβ€”someone who enjoys guiding a curious submissive through discovery, challenge, and growth. A man who understands that anticipation can be just as intoxicating as action, and that trust is the foundation of any meaningful dynamic. I appreciate patience, communication, and a strong yet respectful presence. I’m drawn to confidence, but also to someone who values connection, chemistry, and mutual understanding. For now, I’m here to learn, explore, and follow my curiosity wherever it may lead.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Mommy Dom. Looking for a submissive boyfriend. Be sweet, respectful and obedient so I'll adore you. Be rude, pervy or selfish and I'll be a cunt.
Female (34) Tacoma, Washington
Fat, funny, and fierce. if you know me in my professional life, no you don’t. Neurospicy. Mostly interested in other queer folks. Willing to consider cis het men if the vibes are impeccable. People who have been in therapy move to the front. Not looking for anything serious. Really looking to make up for all of the sex I missed in my 20s and 30s. Premenopausal horniness is in full swing. Finally exploring my kinks and sexuality after a lifetime of prioritizing other people’s needs. I’m ready to try new things and ask for what I want. Looking for someone who can take some of the decisions away from me and give me the freedom to be present and inhabit my body fully. ACAB. Fuck ICE. Read more romance. find me on FL: monbur
Female (46) Tacoma, Washington
I’ve been into kink for awhile now but i have limited real life experience. i want to learn!
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington
41 β€’ BBW πŸ”₯ Confident, feminine, and a little wicked in all the right ways. I’m drawn to a man who naturally leadsβ€”a strong, grounded Dom who knows how to take charge while still valuing deep connection and trust. I crave a relationship where passion, chemistry, and power dynamics exist alongside emotional depth and spiritual alignment. I believe the best connections are built on honesty, loyalty, respect, and a spark that keeps things exciting behind closed doors. I’m looking for something real and long-term with a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to claim it. If you’re serious, confident, and ready for a woman who can match your energy… we might get along very well. If you’re not seriousβ€”shake my hand and keep it moving. πŸ˜‰
Female (41) Tacoma, Washington
just a bratty baby girl looking for a truly dominant man. I have always liked the kinky side of life but am new to exploring and learning about the lifestyle and it excites me endlessly. If you’re interested don’t keep looking at my profile just message me and see if we vibe! I’m an open book and a very honest blunt person
Female (38) Tacoma, Washington
I’m a sex-positive masochist, rope bottom, and primal. I’m 100% poly and pansexual. Not looking for a dynamic but enjoy some BDSM mixed in with my sex. A consistent male partner/FWB is the goal. If you are a thinking person with a sense of humor and genuine interest in exploring how and why the world works...with and without kink-colored glasses on...and getting to know other sexy, intelligent, funny people then we might have some things in common.
Female (56) Tacoma, Washington
I am looking to try lots of new things in 2026. I am now at a stage in my life I can embrace my kinks and desires. Be who I truly am! A cock worshipper, submissive, slut and wants to play with everyone! I love men (respectful of course) I find it so important to remind them they have value and are appreciated. I have a boyfriend/significant other/Daddy/Master. I am not looking to replace him. He completes me. He loves watching me with other men. We do not have an open relationship. We discuss all requests and decide together. Due to our schedules it can take a week to go over all the requests. I love sucking cock!!!! When I'm sucking cock I want Master to forget everything but the feeling of my mouth around his cock. Slowly sliding his cock all the way down my throat. Feeling my throat muscles as I begin to swallow, tightening my throat muscle around his cock. Looking up at my Master, needing his approval. Tell me I'm a good girl Daddy. πŸ’– I love talking about sex. Talking about fantasy's, fetishes and everything to do with sexual gratification, being open and honest without *** of disapproval. Learning about different kinks and fetishes and the desires of my partners. I am open to new experiences. Communication and trust is a must. I want my partners to trust me enough to tell me their deepest desires and fantasies. And work at making them come true.
Female (53) Tacoma, Washington
I'm into Bondage, almost everything public, age regression, Spanking, feet, spit, abdl, pet play. nobody over 26. and to really get my attention tell me ur deepest darkest fantasy in detail and if it's good enough I'll tell mine...btw I'm not going at texting back sometimes
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington
I am not sure how to describe myself or what I'm looking for but I will do my best. I am a Good woman , kind honest and loyal to a fault. in my everyday life I am considered dominate however in the bedroom I need a man to show me that he is in control he has the power ,show me that he really is a real man . I can however be the Dominate one as well .
Female (50) Tacoma, Washington

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I am here for friendship, community, and women. I don't need anymore male "doms" in my inbox. I am mean, and I will not apologize for being that way. No I don't want to fuck you guys, and I will not entertain you. if you have not read this, nor do you understand it, don't message me. also, I don't put feet anywhere near my mouth.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Not looking for a relationship β€” just looking for the right dynamic. πŸ’‹ I’m playful, curious, and naturally submissive with the right person. I like confidence, good communication, and someone who knows how to take the lead without being disrespectful. I’m here to explore, have fun, and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re confident, patient, and know the difference between being dominant and being an asshole… we might get along very well. πŸ˜‰
Female (22) Tacoma, Washington
Polyamorous muppet/human hybrid, dating solo. I’m here looking for a local person for a long-term, meaningful anchor partner connection with a deep power exchange component. Over two decades in BDSM taught me I’m a devoted, unapologetically submissive partner who thrives with experienced, confident Dominants. I need someone who can handle both a flogger and a dinner reservation with equal ease. If you can invest time and attention beyond once a week, we will build an extraordinary D/s team. It is within the safety of that deep bond I would like to explore CNC, free use, primal play, power exchange, and ***d gangbangs. . I am well-traveled and endlessly curious, which I hope we share. I get few chances to be as outdoorsy as I’d like, but I never miss a great concert, gallery opening, or perfectly planned adventure. I’m usually reading at least three books at once while drinking bourbon in my mermaid underpants. Share your latest reads, teach me a new skill you love while something jazzy plays through a steel needle, or come over for cocktails while I make us something delicious. . Vaccinated, boosted, and regularly tested. Neurospicy (Tested IQ of 170+, AuDHD polymath + synesthesia and orgasmic superpowers), 420 friendly, no *** of my own (but I don't mind if you have them and will spoil them if you let me). . Passions: sci-fi and fantasy, vampire films, history, art, theoretical physics, *** rescue, music theory, smooth bourbons, kink, shibari, social justice and equity, museums, and science. . Not compatible with: TERFs, racists, bigots, misogynists, zionists, Christians, or Trump voters. . I am not good at long-distance relationships and do not wish to speak to anyone that does not live in my local area.
Female (46) Tacoma, Washington
I am a 39 year old plus size female, married, but polyamourus. I'm looking to meet new people in the community. I am here to find friends and build from that. I have a primary and a partner and am not looking to rush into things. No hook ups.
Female (39) Tacoma, Washington
Looking to connect with dominant men who appreciate thick & curvy women. Open minded, non-judgemental, willing to explore new things in person or from afar.
Female (39) Tacoma, Washington
I am not sure how to describe myself or what I'm looking for but I will do my best. I am a Good woman , kind honest and loyal to a fault. in my everyday life I am considered dominate however in the bedroom I need a man to show me that he is in control he has the power ,show me that he really is a real man . I can however be the Dominate one as well .
Female (50) Tacoma, Washington
just a bratty baby girl looking for a truly dominant man. I have always liked the kinky side of life but am new to exploring and learning about the lifestyle and it excites me endlessly. If you’re interested don’t keep looking at my profile just message me and see if we vibe! I’m an open book and a very honest blunt person
Female (38) Tacoma, Washington
Poly and partnered. I would describe myself as a submissive brat with nibbling tendencies. Looking to explore tantra, D/s, brat taming, and *** dynamics with open and intentional communication. Interested in edging / orgasm control, rope, bondage, sensory, and food play. I do identify as ace-flux with regard to sexuality - knowing, trust, and safety come first before diving into play.
Female (28) Tacoma, Washington
im a homebody at heart I live with my partner.we are poly and currently looking for someone or a couple to join us or just have fun im an *** lover if u have a dog I most likely like u
Female (24) Tacoma, Washington
I work and go to school. so I'm busy normally. Looking for someone to get me silly and leave me sticky on the weekends. 😜🀣 Snap, Insta, TikTok 🀷
Female (26) Tacoma, Washington
PNW Pro/ Lifestyle Dom / SW looking to take on up to 5 + new Loyal, Obedient, Generous Subs/ Sissy's/ Cucks/ Beta Simps to serve her. Interested in serving? Send me a DM so we can talk about logistics. That being said - open to other arrangements 😘😈πŸ”₯ Open to any and ALL different dynamics of arrangements stemming from a Dom/ Sub relationship to sugaring and spoiling, to a more transactional SW dynamic, or if I'm arm candy or just spending time with someone you enjoy the company of. Ultimately I want someone who's going to make me a priority while I'm with them. Knowing that my time is valuable and should be treated as such. I want this to be a mutually beneficial and fulfilling dynamic that is seen as valuable and enjoyable!πŸ˜πŸ˜‰πŸ’‹ I really just want to hang out with someone who's going to make me laugh as hard as they make me cum!πŸ˜‚πŸ€­πŸ‘…πŸ†πŸ‘πŸ’¦πŸŽ€πŸ˜‰βœ¨
Female (26) Tacoma, Washington
I’m a sex-positive masochist, rope bottom, and primal. I’m 100% poly and pansexual. Not looking for a dynamic but enjoy some BDSM mixed in with my sex. A consistent male partner/FWB is the goal. If you are a thinking person with a sense of humor and genuine interest in exploring how and why the world works...with and without kink-colored glasses on...and getting to know other sexy, intelligent, funny people then we might have some things in common.
Female (56) Tacoma, Washington
I’ve been into kink for awhile now but i have limited real life experience. i want to learn!
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington
While I’ve never had a physical D/s relationship, I’ve experienced an intense connection with a Dom in the past that awakened desires and curiosities I haven’t yet had the opportunity to fully explore. That experience left me wanting to learn more about myself, my boundaries, and the kinks that may be waiting beneath the surface. I’m hoping to meet a Dom who is experienced, confident, and emotionally intelligentβ€”someone who enjoys guiding a curious submissive through discovery, challenge, and growth. A man who understands that anticipation can be just as intoxicating as action, and that trust is the foundation of any meaningful dynamic. I appreciate patience, communication, and a strong yet respectful presence. I’m drawn to confidence, but also to someone who values connection, chemistry, and mutual understanding. For now, I’m here to learn, explore, and follow my curiosity wherever it may lead.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Must read entire profile please it’s detailed with why I’m here … Everyone that knows me knows I've always wanted to be in a πŸ¦„ position. Open to about anything just ask. I’ve been with EnM men before and it works I’ve also been in a poly relationship and it works. that I want to be pampered and taken care of and spoiled duh I already work hard πŸ˜†I’m not a digger don’t worry.. gold isn’t even that good to waste time digging… I want commitment even if it’s ENM or I’m your πŸ¦„ unicorn or β€œbaby”. I’ll match your energy for sure
Female (44) Tacoma, Washington
Fat, funny, and fierce. if you know me in my professional life, no you don’t. Neurospicy. Mostly interested in other queer folks. Willing to consider cis het men if the vibes are impeccable. People who have been in therapy move to the front. Not looking for anything serious. Really looking to make up for all of the sex I missed in my 20s and 30s. Premenopausal horniness is in full swing. Finally exploring my kinks and sexuality after a lifetime of prioritizing other people’s needs. I’m ready to try new things and ask for what I want. Looking for someone who can take some of the decisions away from me and give me the freedom to be present and inhabit my body fully. ACAB. Fuck ICE. Read more romance. find me on FL: monbur
Female (46) Tacoma, Washington
Love to fuck, what can I say? Not really a little but very submissive and cute when I have the right dom. Not gonna teach you, come prepared for a brat. I do not blindly follow orders. I don’t brat to disobey. It’s how I express my boundaries and keeps things fun. It comes naturally. I am only me, there is no roleplay here. I want passionate kisses and to be roughly devoured before the slow descent into quiet submission, where I go limp and enter subspace. If you don’t know what that is, move along. I am very prone to sub drop so aftercare (not just cuddles and kisses) is mandatory. Praise is my main kink.
Female (43) Tacoma, Washington
I am looking to try lots of new things in 2026. I am now at a stage in my life I can embrace my kinks and desires. Be who I truly am! A cock worshipper, submissive, slut and wants to play with everyone! I love men (respectful of course) I find it so important to remind them they have value and are appreciated. I have a boyfriend/significant other/Daddy/Master. I am not looking to replace him. He completes me. He loves watching me with other men. We do not have an open relationship. We discuss all requests and decide together. Due to our schedules it can take a week to go over all the requests. I love sucking cock!!!! When I'm sucking cock I want Master to forget everything but the feeling of my mouth around his cock. Slowly sliding his cock all the way down my throat. Feeling my throat muscles as I begin to swallow, tightening my throat muscle around his cock. Looking up at my Master, needing his approval. Tell me I'm a good girl Daddy. πŸ’– I love talking about sex. Talking about fantasy's, fetishes and everything to do with sexual gratification, being open and honest without *** of disapproval. Learning about different kinks and fetishes and the desires of my partners. I am open to new experiences. Communication and trust is a must. I want my partners to trust me enough to tell me their deepest desires and fantasies. And work at making them come true.
Female (53) Tacoma, Washington
I'm a pretty outgoing person if the vibe is there. I'm married. He's on here also. we have a family and have been together for almost a decade. We met larping. we have recently started exploring with others. I'm bi, my husband is straight. I have a deep desire to be spitroasted. We are 420 friendly. I actually have my Rx for it. We won't play ay ho.e as there are kids at home.
Female (39) Tacoma, Washington
I’m a dominant, I will submit occasionally, for the right person. if just reading this makes you think you’re the right person, it’s definitely not you. I am always looking to help the person I’m with fulfill fantasies, explore new things, and have new experiences. I’m not into ONS. I never play on the first date. I like board games, comedy shows, going out, finding the hole in the wall restaurants or bars, staying home and watching tv, and cooking. pansexual, kitchen table poly
Female (45) Tacoma, Washington
41 β€’ BBW πŸ”₯ Confident, feminine, and a little wicked in all the right ways. I’m drawn to a man who naturally leadsβ€”a strong, grounded Dom who knows how to take charge while still valuing deep connection and trust. I crave a relationship where passion, chemistry, and power dynamics exist alongside emotional depth and spiritual alignment. I believe the best connections are built on honesty, loyalty, respect, and a spark that keeps things exciting behind closed doors. I’m looking for something real and long-term with a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to claim it. If you’re serious, confident, and ready for a woman who can match your energy… we might get along very well. If you’re not seriousβ€”shake my hand and keep it moving. πŸ˜‰
Female (41) Tacoma, Washington
Hello, I am a sub, straight female in a committed D/s relationship with a very sexy man, and we are looking to expand our social circle with likeminded kingly couples and select single men. I like to go to the gym, Pilates, mental health walks, and reading books. If you just want to be besties let me know. I’m also looking for a female friend to go to the gym with. Negative STI panel if you want to play.
Female (38) Tacoma, Washington
I’m new to BDSM and taking my time learning what feels right for me. I’m also a consensual virgin β€” if that’s unfamiliar, I’m happy to explain. I tend to move slowly with trust, so I might come across a little shy or playful at first. I promise I’m taking things seriously β€” I just like to ease in and get comfortable. I am looking for someone to call Daddy and completely disrespect me, respectfully. Though, it may just take some time. Patience is so fucking sexy. I’m here to enjoy the process, connect with kind people, and explore at a pace that feels safe and respectful for both of us. If you value communication, patience, and a gentle dominate approach, we’ll get along just fine.
Female (35) Tacoma, Washington
Hi there! Im new to this, pretty unexperienced and very curious. Im a lady, so im not looking for something sexual. But that doesn't mean I dont want to learn more, I can be a good girl or a brat. Depends on you. BBW over here, down to earth so hmu if you wanna chat about random stuff fr. PLEASE NOTE. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR HOOKUPS OR SOMETHING ONLY SEXUAL. IF THATS WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR PLEASE IGNORE THIS PROFILE.
Female (20) Tacoma, Washington

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